25 weeks, 3 days:
I am in love with this baby and I am in love with my husband! He is so sweet and supportive. I can’t imagine being with anyone else…I am so glad I found him. Today was our 24-week appointment with the midwife group. I had to take my one-hour glucose test (really not that bad) and the midwife felt the baby’s position for the first time. It was amazing that she could feel limbs and her head through my stomach! Wild! She seems to be kind of to the side right now, with her head up near my right upper torso. It’s still early, though…plenty of time to move that baby down into position!
Here’s my 24-week photo. I know I had been cutting my head off my photos before posting, but really you all can link to my YouTube videos and see my face there, so why bother?
This weekend hubby and I are celebrating our one-year wedding anniversary! I can’t believe it has been a year since our wedding…we are going on a mini vacation to the mountains to celebrate! Can’t wait!
As I anticipate life as a new breastfeeding mom who is not willing to become a shut-in to give her baby the nutrition she needs, I have started arming myself with information so that I can be better equipped and more confident when nursing in public. As I know this is a common struggle for many breastfeeding moms, I thought I would share with you what has helped and is continuing to help me.
And here’s another idea: Check out the Ramblings of an Acrophile blog, where yesterday I read (thanks to the Nursing Freedom Facebook page, as a matter of fact) her post on a pamphlet she created to keep with her and to hand out to naysayers while nursing in public. Very kindly, she has not copyrighted this text, and has even asked that those interested take it, tweak it, and keep it for themselves. I imagine this could be a great tool if someone says something to you while you are nursing in public. Unless they get too feisty, simply smile, reach in your diaper bag, hand them your home-created pamphlet, and tell them to “have a nice day!” Here’s my version:
Georgia State Law Protects Breastfeeding!
Ga. Code Ann. § 31-1-9 (Lexis 2009) provides that the breastfeeding of a baby is an important and basic act of nurture which should be encouraged in the interests of maternal and child health. A mother may breastfeed her baby in any location where the mother and baby are otherwise authorized to be.
What do you want your children to learn about the purpose of the human breast?
The breast is sexualized in the media and in society, and most of us accept that. If these displays of breasts are accepted by society, should the breast’s primary natural function — to feed our babies — deserve less respect? Think about what you want your children to learn about respect for the female body and the act of feeding a baby.
Please don’t be scared by mothers and babies nursing in public!
There are two basic rules: Don’t stare, and don’t distract the baby. You can make eye contact with most mamas, smile, and say “hello”. We will not slap you if your eye wanders down. That is natural. As long as you have the common decency not to let it linger there, most mamas will not mind. Just don’t stare, and there is usually no issue. We nursing mamas want you to relax around us. There’s nothing to be scared of. We’re just feeding our babies.
Thank you for your understanding.
Most of us are happy to educate. Don’t be afraid to ask a question.
What about you? Do you have any questions? Have I left any glaring holes — things that have helped YOU while nursing in public that I just haven’t thought about? Oh, here’s one — how about teaming up? I imagine it would be a lot easier to go out with a new mama friend and breastfeed wherever you need to together, or make friends with other breastfeeding mamas on the playground, than to go it alone if you are nervous at first.
I hope these tips help you! They sure are helping me.
As of Wednesday I am 23 weeks pregnant with this little sweetie. Most recently, my nights have been dominated by really interesting dreams. I must say that since I became pregnant, my already wild dream world (think constant post-apocalyptic dreamscapes with me as the leader of a group struggling to survive) became even wilder. Over the last couple of weeks, the dreams have focused more and more on this little one inside of me. Here are a few highlights from this week:
My waking moments are becoming more and more focused on our growing family, and now my dreams are too. I can’t wait to meet her and see what she really looks and acts like. I want to see her smile and her eyes light up. Soon enough… 🙂
I just learned from my midwife group, Intown Midwifery, that this week is National Midwifery Week! Back in July I talked about why we switched from an OBGYN to a midwife group. I am happy to say I support the midwifery model of care in which a pregnancy is not treated as an illness. I know there are plenty of good OBGYNs out there and I certainly don’t want to bash them, but for me this was the only way to go.
To celebrate national midwifery week, I “challenge” you to watch The Business of Being Born (if you haven’t already.) Watching this documentary solidified for my husband and me the feeling that we wanted to find a practice other than our former OBGYN. It is a documentary on midwifery care and home births that was done by Ricki Lake, and I think it was done really well.
If you watch it (or have already), let me know what you think. Happy National Midwifery Week! (And happy 22 weeks to this baby! She’s doing well and moving around more than ever!)